Every May 19th, as I celebrate my birthday, I find myself reflecting not just on life—but on love, joy, and the magic of meaningful celebrations. As a wedding planner, I’ve been part of countless “best days ever,” and each one has taught me something new. In this post, I’m sharing birthday-inspired lessons on planning a wedding that feels intentional, joyful, and completely your own.
As an entrepreneur in the wedding and event planning industry, setting ambitious goals is essential for growth and success. One of my major goals was to reach a significant milestone by July 1st. Despite my dedication and hard work, I didn’t quite hit the mark. But that's okay—this experience has only fueled my determination to keep pushing forward.
What I consider to be my “planning failures” haunt me at the most inopportune times. Big or small, I just keep reminding myself that I messed up! Recently, I randomly thought, “I should’ve done a better job selecting a DJ for my sister’s wedding.” My sister’s wedding was in 2015!
Check out my public apology to my sister as I rehash my “L” from almost 6 years ago!
Couples have a responsibility to their guests. When planning a wedding, a couple should do everything in their power to provide the best guest experience possible. Guests have responsibilities too! Before and on the big day there are things guests can do to enjoy the wedding day to the fullest while also being respectful of the couple’s decisions and requests! Take a moment to check out a few wedding guest tips provided by yours truly!
